I see avenues of the white mans narrative (sexism, transphobia) in control right now with your objections and reactions to others feeling pride for Caitlyn Jenner. I see you telling women to be angry at other women and prophecies being delivered that trans and cis women specifically white women versus black women and cis versus trans women will hate each other very soon. Or proclaiming which women should be or should not be supporting other women coming out in their truth. Patriarchy is a motherfucker and just like white privilege slips into the white feminists POV even though she herself is a target of oppression so does patriarchy slip into the male revolutionary's mindset.
How about this? Women in general and the trans community as a whole will let YOU know how they plan to handle this nuanced situation regarding Caitlyn Jenner. Our discussion is personal and not meant for you. As an ally of women and the trans community you need to fall back and wait for your instructions on what we need from you. I am confident we have enough brainpower and guts to handle ourselves. The trans community have been talking about race and class privilege and they have been talking about Jenner's problematic public impact. So no this is not about you. Please get your attention-seeking drama out of the way so we can actually do some work.
Coming from a place of love. As always.